I may have figured out a workaround...I'll post back in a bit.
So, I indeed figured out a simple workaround..
Because the dependencies are not set correctly to the proper name, it calls the initialization sequence alphabetically from the MODS directory (makes sense).
I just changed the name for DeFence so that it is called after F4113nC0r3.
I hope this helps *anyone* else that might be having this issue, I'm sure I can't be the only one...
Proof:
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] CompactSolars(Compact Solar Arrays:4.0.3.29): IC2_CompactSolars_4.0.3.29_MC147.zip ()
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] F4113nC0r3(F4113n C0r3:1.3.2): IC2_F4113nC0r3_4.0.5_MC146.zip (after:IC2)
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] GraviSuite(Gravitation Suite:1.7): IC2_GravitationSuite_1.7_MC147.zip ()
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] ModularForceFieldSystem(Modular ForceField System V2:2.2.8.3.6): IC2_MFFS_2.2.8.3.6_MC146.zip (after:ThermalExpansion)
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] MCACore(MoreCompositeArmor:1.3.2): IC2_MoreCompositeArmor_3.1.0_MC146.zip (after:FCore)
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] IC2NuclearControl(Nuclear Control:1.4.6): IC2_NuclearControl_1.4.6_MC146.zip (after:IC2)
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] drceph.petrogen(Petroleum Generator:1.2.1): IC2_PetrolGenerators_1.2.1_MC146.zip ()
2013-03-21 09:09:36 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] DCore(Defence:1.4.6): IC2_zDeFence_3.3.2_MC147.zip (after:FCore)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod CompactSolars
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod CompactSolars to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod CompactSolars accepts its own version (4.0.3.29)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into CompactSolars
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod CompactSolars
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod F4113nC0r3
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod F4113nC0r3 to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod F4113nC0r3 accepts its own version (1.3.2)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into F4113nC0r3
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod F4113nC0r3
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod GraviSuite
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod GraviSuite to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod GraviSuite accepts its own version (1.7)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into GraviSuite
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod GraviSuite
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod ModularForceFieldSystem
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod ModularForceFieldSystem to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod ModularForceFieldSystem accepts its own version (2.2.8.3.6)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into ModularForceFieldSystem
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod ModularForceFieldSystem
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod MCACore
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into MCACore
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod MCACore
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod IC2NuclearControl
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod IC2NuclearControl to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod IC2NuclearControl accepts its own version (1.4.6)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into IC2NuclearControl
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod IC2NuclearControl
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod drceph.petrogen
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod drceph.petrogen to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod drceph.petrogen accepts its own version (1.2.1)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into drceph.petrogen
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod drceph.petrogen
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sending event FMLConstructionEvent to mod DCore
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] Testing mod DCore to verify it accepts its own version in a remote connection
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINEST] [ForgeModLoader] The mod DCore accepts its own version (1.4.6)
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINE] [ForgeModLoader] Attempting to inject @SidedProxy classes into DCore
2013-03-21 09:09:38 [FINER] [ForgeModLoader] Sent event FMLConstructionEvent to mod DCore