I THINK I GET IT
LET THE KNOWLEDGE FLOW THROUGH.
Update on this:
You just need much greater component heat exchanging rates when you want to even out the heat between overclocked heat vents
Edit: You are right! That is the 50% of the problem. It is not entirely obvious though why the advanced heat exchanger's exchanging rate is not enough in this case though. It turns out it is because of a combination of: "Heat exchangers work intelligently, seeking to make every component they interact be equally far from disintegration." This is taken from the wiki page on nuclear reactors. And secondly because the heat exchanger also exchanges 8 hu/s with the hull (this will make sense in a minute).
It turns out that in this configuration, the heat exchanger eventually balances out at 400 hu.
In comparison with the northern vent and the western vent's maximum durability and the heat exchanger's maximum durability, the heat exchanger 'intelligently' calculates that sending 20 hu/s to each of the Northern and western vent is what it should do. That is in spite of it being capable of sending 24hu/s.
This slowly accumulates heat into the system because the N and W vent don't have enough heat to use their cooling capabilities (resulting in a continuous increase of 8hu/s). But eventually this heat would go to the heat exchanger, and the heat exchanger would surpass 400 hu. Thus making the 'intelligent' algorithm send more than 20 hu/s to the northern and western vent and eventually the reactor would stabilise.
The problem is, that that doesn't happen.. Because of the fact that the exchanger sends 8 hu/s to the hull as well. Because of the way components are activated from top left to bottom right, that 8 hu will go to the vent that is just right of the heat exchanger.
So the extra 8 hu/s that is accumulated thoroughout the system just happens to all get sent to this one vent, thus it never gets to the heat exchanger for it to pass 400 hu and 'intelligently' send more heat to the N and W vents.
Thus eventually the vent that is right of the heat exchanger (Easter vent) blows up and the system does too, not far from it.
Also in the configuration where this works, with the quad uranium cell in the top left, the heat exchanger stabilizes at around 480-520 hu(somehow, I haven't looked into it and to be honest, I don't understand the heat exchanger algorithm. I have made 2 algorithms that try to simulate it, but neither quite works the same as the one in IC2). This allows the exchanger to transmit the full 24hu to every vent, thus making use of every vent's cooling.