...every time I find HeadHunter in a flame war it is suprisingly interesting to read. And I find myself on his side more often.
Thank you, but I will say that this is not a "flame war". I have my opinions, I try to support them rationally, and I find that some people adhere as ardently to a dissenting opinion.
The problem comes when people cannot realize that one of the things I do is force people to challenge their own conceptions and beliefs. If one's opinion can hold up to my scrutiny, even if I don't agree with it, I can accept it as valid.
If one's response to that scrutiny is to turn away from the issue and attack me personally, well then the gloves come off.
I've had some strong and spirited discussions with people who've turned into friends when we find that our common ground is broader than the areas in which we disagree.
In the words of Jack Handey: "A man doesn't automatically get my respect. He has to get down in the dirt and beg for it." :p